Sunday, February 10, 2013

Relationship Issues Unfolding?


"Relationship Issues Unfolding?"


  

What I have been experiencing this week is a major shift in the way we think, feel and therefor process relationship issues. We are awakening to new desires and needs (two very different energies), and the ways in which we get these needs met has changed. Or are you noticing that... yet? 
 
The old ways, or paradigms, are falling away and we are standing at the leading edge of the new. Join me tonight as we explore ways to bridge the gap and become comfortable and secure bumping around in this new energy that is forming our new relationships. 
 
It is so very important not to get our fingers into other peoples dramas. Some things showing up to  look at are:  Why  others can't feel the way they feel, simply because it isn't the way you feel or because you can't be comfortable as they feel that way. Sounds confusing? well, It can be.
 
Relationships are the single most lesson teaching platform that there is. We mirror each other and attract like vibrational circumstances all day, every day. We play out over and over what it is that we believe. That's just LIFE. That's just what we were born to do right? Right. So who said that it had to be uncomfortable? where did we attach a belief that says that change is hard? That it's scary?
Well, It's simple really, it has to do with how safe we feel inside our own skin. How much do we trust that everything is in divine order? How  do we feel if it's not what we think when it is over and how easy is it to change to something else?  For some of us, that whole thought string is absolutely scary as hell and is in no way comfortable, desirable and as a matter of fact, I WILL NEVER LIVE THAT WAY!.  And therefore structure their lives no NEVER even be an option to consider.

More of us live that way than you may realize. In many ways we run from change, we run from the thought of failing and therefore trying something different. We have been taught that it BAD, even more importantly that WE ARE BAD when we fail. So you wonder why we don't try? I don't.
So Just how DO we become comfortable in change? How Do We learn to go with the flow and trust?
 
It takes coaching. It takes learning how to learn differently that we have been taught in the old paradigm. It take learning to trust yourself and the rewards are tremendous! The life we build on the new foundation is spectacular!. So take that step, take that chance... Lets roll up our sleeves together and walk into life on our terms, We have the help Now to do it. What are you waiting for?
 
Jody Robinson
Transformational Life Coach